Tuesday, November 30, 2004

On the subject of slut training, I must say it's quite humorous how badly some slaves perform fellatio. Time and time again, I pull my strapped-on dildo out of the slave's mouth and find the condom is almost completely chewed off. Ouch! Now really, teething is for babies ;-)

It makes me think of that kid's game Operation, where you try to pull out the different pieces that represent the body parts of a patient. The key is to not touch the sides as you pick it up from its little slot. Otherwise, a loud buzzer goes off. That's what I need -- a cock-biting alarm. Or maybe something like that dental paper that gets marked up where you bite down. He he he :-) OK just kidding.

Don't get me wrong. I do have some fine cock suckers for slaves. The other day I presided over a very exciting glory-hole fantasy. Per my instructions, my slave brought in 2 nicely realistic dildos that had suction cups attachments. I stuck them on the mirrors in the dungeon -- eye level to my slave while on her knees. Yes, we had slave dressed up like a sweet slutty girl. It was so much fun I went out and bought my own pair of suction cup dildos to use on the rest of you! During the scene I cross dressed myself, which is a real treat. I was Rocco with my big thick cock :-) What makes it all the hotter is hanging out with the other Mistresses while getting dressed and then having them casually reach over and feel my package through my pants. I love the gender bend! Hmm... makes me think of some badass double session possibilities. Oh, but you better ask me nicely first. . .

Tuesday, November 23, 2004

Fortunately I was able to recover almost all my files after my computer crashed the other day. So this Thursday I'll have one more thing to be thankful for :-)

Tuesday, November 16, 2004

Apparently one of my computer hard drives crashed. We are working on recovering the files. It would be a shame to lose everything, as I had a lot of information on there. Like all my personal and professional digital photo albums, including the rest of a series of pictures I'd been posting and had planned on making into a new gallery on my xia-bdsm.com site. Let's all cross our fingers on this one, as there are many years worth of memories at stake! Thankfully, I have back-up and hard copies of most of my writings.

I did manage to dig up a thumbnail of a third photo in the series I've been posting. Hopefully all the rest will come back to me as well.


M.X. with Whip -- Crack!


On another positive note, I recently celebrated my birthday and was happy to receive best wishes from those in the know. Yes, I know I didn't announce it. It just happened to fall on the same day as at least one other momentous occasion (though certainly one more controversial than my celebration), so I felt it best to keep things low key this year. One birthday greeting came from a long-term slave of mine who has been serving me for over 2 years. He's been a great help to me with some of the backend tasks involved with professional domination and is even putting together a comic book inspired by me. Indeed, just as I have been a muse for his creativity, he and other wonderful slaves have inspired me in my creative endeavors. This spontaneous outpouring of sweet sentiment put a big smile on my face. I let him know I'd like to share it with everyone.

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Mistress Xia,

I don't know if you've gathered this from all our varied interactions, but I would like to take this time to let you know how much I greatly admire you as a human being.

This all may sound corny, but I feel very lucky to have met you and even to have been born in the same time era as yourself. It is so rare to come across someone who opens up new experiences in your positive, non-judgmental way. Also, your desire to squeeze the absolute most out of this miracle of life is astonishing. Your need to constantly better yourself through meditation, workshops and additional college coursework are truly inspirational. I've never encountered the need to create art (M. Xia comic book) through such a muse as yourself. Thank you for giving me the choice to take the "red" pill, for I've never looked back...

Okay, that's enough before I turn too sappy. Bye for now.




Saturday, November 13, 2004

A big belated thank you to Ms. Heart for so kindly doing me the favor of creating the banner seen below. Her great spirit has shown through in her committed efforts to bring greater awareness to the kinky community through the formation of the BDSM Women of Color in the Bay Area project, recently hosting a panel discussion and play party (I couldn't make it but did send one of my slaves to help out -- good job M!). A photo exhibit "Through Our Lenses - Beauty in Diversity" is currently on display at the Madame S store in San Francisco through November 29th.


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Wednesday, November 10, 2004

Allow me to express a peeve of mine. Like everyone, I appreciate the occasional compliment on my looks, intellect and the like. Yet systematic evaluation of my various physical and mental attributes -- to my face, no less -- is quite inappropriate. Though one may interpret my role as professional domina to involve a certain level of self-commoditization, I do not consider it the place of those who serve me to verbally objectify me by continually expressing their assessment/approval of my appearance, style or mannerisms. Even when what is coming out of one's mouth initially seems completely positive, one should still take care to use good timing and word choice. Such behaviour can come off as a bit condescending. And really, it is presumptuous for a submissive to directly judge his Mistress in this way. It seems that some forget their manners when money exchanges hands. In contrast, consider how one acts on a romantic date with a woman, where typically there is greater discretion employed in the statements one makes. Do not make the mistake of believing that I will not be so discerning.

Friday, November 5, 2004

I have been deeply touched by those within my stable who have felt real change in their lives due to my positive influence. It gives me great satisfaction to be an inspiration to those who serve me. I do not consciously set out to work in this way, focusing instead on the liberation of play without guilt and the nurturing of the intricacies of one's unique perversions. Yet I have found time and time again that my approach has allowed my slaves to tap into their higher selves, motivating them to explore new avenues, accomplish goals and feel confident about who they are.

One such slave wrote me a lovely email recently which I made sure was all right to share with all of you. He has credited me with inspiring him to better himself physically through exercise and a healthier lifestyle. The results are quite remarkable and I am very proud of him.

Here it is:

just had to e-mail as soon as I could about last night.
That was a fantastic session!

Everything was great, from our nice conversation to your incomparable domination of me. Xia; just the way you move, your voice, your style and grace, the way you make me feel at ease. Mistress you give me such a high. I'm still on cloud nine! And my nipples are quaking to boot!

I hope you enjoyed our session too. You have completely changed my attitude as a submissive these last two years. In the past it was mostly about me, I was a little selfish. It was satisfy me and if you had fun along the way, that was OK. I took you ladies for granted.

No more, I don't take you for granted at all mistress. You have a gift, what you do is very special. Sure, I come to you to get my kinky fantasies fulfilled, but that's a given with you. I have never had a bad or even average session with you mistress. Every time has been excellent!

I am one lucky dude to have a mistress like you and it really makes me feel good when I can as bring a smile to my mistress' face or get a little laugh out of her. I want to be the best slave I can be; because you are the finest dominatrix I have ever had.