Saturday, December 18, 2004

In recent months, my style has evolved to a new level of strict control and discipline. And when appropriate, I have also allowed myself to enjoy a teasingly sharp form of humiliation. While submission to me is always erotic, building upon these other elements continues to deepen my play. I'll be contemplating revising the text on my xia-bdsm site to reflect my current outlook.

Damn, I hate to have to make statements like this. Yet it would appear that some of you need to be clued in to the fact that I will not give you a "happy ending" with my hands. Of course, if you're a good boy I'll let you do it yourself. The real sluts among you may get to clean up your mess afterwards with your cumbucket mouths!

It was nice to see coverage of Jenna Jameson's autobiography How to Make Love Like a Porn Star: A Cautionary Tale in our local Spectator. Though her type of vanilla blonde porn has never been my cup of tea, I have come to admire Jenna for her strength, confidence and success in a hard business. I've been a fan of porn since my college days in Southern California, when my roommates and I would sit around and watch a tape or two. When Jenna first came on the scene, she became well known for not taking shit from anybody. And that certainly didn't sit well with some in the XXX establishment. I remember picking up an old AVN magazine from about 10 years ago and reading that she was nothing but marketing hype. And even more recently -- like maybe 5 years ago -- reading that she had lost out on her chance for a mainstream breakthrough because of her many tattoos. More like wishful thinking on the part of the writers, resentful of an enterprising and strong woman in the adult industry who really stood up for herself. The other day I caught her on a Hollywood entertainment show being interviewed. The interviewer was trying to get her to go with his theory that her teenage sexual victimization is what turned her into a porn star, but she would have none of it. She insisted that she always liked sex and that's why she ended up making blue movies. No shame. You go girl :-)

Ho Ho Ho from Santa Xia!

. . .Happy Holidays. . .