Friday, December 2, 2005

Regarding this last photo, what can I say? The time seemed ripe for another hot straponista shot ;-) As some of you may know, I used to have quite a few strap-on pics on xia-bdsm.com. When I changed the look of my site earlier this year, I decided to take out all of those pictures. Not because I no longer enjoy slut training -- it's still an incredibly heady experience for me when appropriate. It's simply that I wanted to keep away those who are merely interested in a strap-on service provider. In my mind, slut training is a fabulous reward for true submission. It is about serving me, not being serviced by me.

Topping with my strap-on truly is a tantric experience for me; intense, intoxicating and erotic. I feel the power of being the penetrator. Not so much literally or in a physically specific way(pushing the dildo against the pubic bone in a silly attempt to stimulate is a no-no!). Rather, it's a sensation which can fully encompass both the mind and the body, enraptured in the forceful energy of yang dancing with yin. Now that's bliss...